Tangle is a very Zen dog, has been since the moment I brought him home. Very thoughtful, in tune with his environment and a deep desire to keep the peace and balance of life. Tangle did not come to me as a happy-go-lucky puppy ready to play always. It isn't that he didn't know how to play, his play was just calmer, thoughtful and never out of control.
I am the opposite of Tangle, in agility I am intense, obsessed, and wired up. Exactly what Tangle felt he needed to "calm". On the surface, it wasn't the match made in heaven, but we are exactly what each other needed.
Tangle was always able to learn and work. We never went to a trial or had a practice where he couldn't work. He just never worked with the intensity and speed I knew he had. I would always see more intensity and speed from him at home (a comfortable environment) than at a trial. He was also never able to tug (play) at a trial in the beginning, he was way too worried and honestly, I don't think he knew he could "play" in those environments.
This wasn't what I wanted for us! I wanted him to have fun and selfishly, I wanted an intense partner.
The ultra marathon began (and thankfully I didn't know it was going to be one). I will spare all the details along the way, just know that along the way I celebrated, cried, got frustrated, took breaks, doubted, had faith, and saw break-throughs. One thing that never changed was the desire to have the partner I knew he could be and it kept me coming back to the goal.
4 years ago we went to Cynosport in Murfreeburo TN. It was a 5 ring indoor circus. Loud, crowded, full of energy, girls in heat, basically every distraction and energy source on the planet. Tangle and I had a really hard time. Just getting to the ring was a stressor, we never arrived relaxed, playful and ready to go.
Fast forward, Tangle is 7 years old and we competed at Cynosport in Murfreeburo, TN again. I felt more armed with tools to help my dog work through the stress, but something was different this year. Right from the beginning Tangle was super happy to be there, partner by my side and tugging when ever I asked him to play. I cried, multiple time, tears of happiness! It dawned on me that we had finally reached our goal. Every time I stepped to the start line I had a happy, ready to go, ready to play, INTENSE, fast partner.
It took 7 years to reach this goal, but Tangle is everything I know he can be!
To make the goal even sweeter, Tangle and I made Grand Prix and Team Finals.
